Thursday, November 7, 2013

Why apologizing too much is bad for working women(Must Read)

This is interesting.I don't know if it would work in Nigeria..Found this on Daily mail

Ladies, if you’re a couple of minutes late for work, do you simply say sorry – or do you find yourself giving a long list of reasons because you feel so guilty?If it’s the latter, then apparently you’re a ‘sorry skirt’ – and it’s thwarting your chances of getting a promotion.Working women apologise too frequently and lack confidence  in their abilities, a report reveals today. It means they constantly say ‘sorry’ in situations where a man would never think to.
Ann Francke, chief executive of the Chartered Management Institute, said:



 ‘Take this example – a woman is late for a meeting.Young woman in office Rather than just sitting down and getting on with the meeting, they say:
 “I’m so sorry. I had to take the kids to school or the dog was sick.” They over-explain.A man would just say “Sorry  I’m late”, sit down and get on with it. It is a phenomenon known as being a “sorry skirt”.’ 
According to the report, women don’t think they need to publicise their achievements, while men will broadcast theirs.
It says:
‘Women sit there thinking the work I am doing is so great someone will come along and they’ll put a tiara on my head.At the next desk, a young man … has no embarrassment about jumping on his desk and saying to the boss: “Look at me. Aren’t I fabulous?”’

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