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Regina Askia writes on the Nigerian woman and societal pressure
5/27/2014 9:23:00 AM
Former beauty queen/actress Regina Askia Williams wrote an interesting piece about the Nigerian woman and the societal pressures and demands placed on her and shared it on her Facebook page. It's an interesting read. Find it below...
I just read a social media fight between two people I know and I chuckle to myself because my friend was blowing some hot words there - she was really vexed. Reading through the literary missiles, a few questions came to mind. Why is it that, generally when Nigerians fight their profanity centers around a woman's marital status, her age and to top off the insults, her private parts? Are these the yardsticks that we measure our women by? The marital status thing. Does it mean when a woman is not married she has no identity, she is less of a person or what? For a Nigerian woman to get any type of respect there has to be a man in the picture in what ever capacity? So it does not matter if you are wife number 6 at least you are wife? There is a vulgar saying that goes "Toto wey nobody get, na everybody get am". For real? That pretty much means that a woman unattached is nothing but a mobile body part that anyone can do anything to or with.....chaaiii!! And so begins the race where mothers groom and condition their daughters to believe that their ultimate duty on Gods earth is to "find a man and born for am". I have often listened to educated folks down so much on women with comments like "They should have no say, after all they are going to get married off", Women think with their butts not their heads and my respect meter for them swings all the way dooownnn!! When we have more respect for our women we will begin to do better as a society. If you want to know the quality of men in any society look at how the women of that society are being treated. Of course its not all Nigerians but there's too many with this notion and something must be said.
The age factor. - Another sexist point of view. With notion of the one goal she must accomplish , the female now believes young and juicy is preference especially if you are at the other side of the biological clock and still have not found a man. So some of my soul sisters have designed a calibration where at 30. birthdays are celebrated every 3 years and at 40 every 4 years. Meaning if you are 30 you will turn 31 after 3 years ......so instead of kicking the other side of 40s with me my friends are mostly still 38. Where we could have fabulous and very accomplished women, celebrating milestones, sharing wisdom of lessons learned over the years, we have we see strong women dumbing down, hiding behind numbers, and an arsenal of paraphernalia that will ensure they don't get old. Look at any photographs of big chicks at any event, we all look bothered. Why? Shoes are biting, wigs are squeezing, body magic trying to snuff out the last breath. Sometimes we are dropping body parts, nails dropping , eye lashes hanging........Lord have mercy. Check out the Louboutins, Louis Vuittons, Micheal Kors, name them, all in competition with the other as we live out social constructs designed to forever keep us mentally emotionally and even physically impoverished (How? Story for another day). We need to love and accept ourselves.
Finally, the woman's private parts. The immediate way to gauge a persons mental quality is how he talks about a woman. It has nothing to with swag, bragado or just being a bad boy, a man who refers to a woman as a body part is quite simply an iIDIOT no if , ands, or buts, just keep it moving. I find it very disturbing that of the myriad of problems in Nigeria, there recently was a move to put in the constitution the legality of underage marriage as opposed to making laws against pedophiles. Its disturbing that what an individual decides to do with their private parts became a matter of national debate and outcry but HIV, malaria, food shortage and Ebola (currently knocking on our doors) are decimating the populace. These attitudes and perceptions of put out or shut up, money for hand back for ground are slowly turning our princess daughters into sex slaves, our turning our sisters and mothers into glorified prostitutes. If you have ever watched a pack of animals - you notice that they eat, fight, mate and sleep. The more highly evolved the animal in question the more organized their activities and interactions with group members. If this is our national psyche, then the women of Nigeria have a long road to walk because we must declare this consciousness unacceptable. This is not who we are and we can do better. We must point our daughters towards higher ideals and goals. We need a mind reorientation and perception which must begin with an honest look at the person in the mirror. Our men must once again learn to respect womanhood. Merit ought to take its place once again. Lets us as a people rise again. Where do we start??
How any woman can make herself more sexually attractive to almost any man
5/27/2014 8:57:00 AM
One of them may even like the sex well enough to marry you. But, what if you want that same man to call you for another date? Well, that might not be so easy. But, what if there was a way to make sure... almost every man... wanted to go out with you again? Continue...
Better yet, what if there was a way to make having sex with you... so fantastic...the man you are interested in... couldn't even think about another woman? What if there was a way to make having sex with you... so good... a man would do anything... even marry you... to keep you in his bed? Or if he's already married to you, never have the desire to look at another woman again?
Well, guess what? Now there is a little-known way you can turn almost any man into your 100% sex slave...
No matter how you look, how old you are or even how much you weigh
Don't laugh. It's really true and, to prove it, I'm going to tell you a story. This story started in Asia about 2,000 years ago. Back then, there was no such thing as women's rights. The only power a woman really had (to get what she wanted) was the power to attract and keep a man. And unfortunately, back then, just like it is today...
Most Men Are Sexually Attracted To Very Young Women!
Why is this?
To answer that question, I have no choice except to tell you something no one wants to talk about publicly. Even most doctors won't tell you this but, the truth is... young women are most likely to be extremely tight!
Maybe you don't like that. Maybe it's unfair. But the truth is the truth. These young women haven't yet been "loosened up" by age, childbirth, hundreds of sexual experiences or anything else that causes them to lose what some people call that "honeymoon fit".
Why is this so important? The answers are easy. A woman with a very tight vagina increases a man's ego by making him feel he has a much larger-than-average penis. (And, almost all men secretly worry about the size of their penis.)
A tight vagina makes a man feel every inch of his penetration. It stimulates every single nerve-ending in his genital area. It literally causes a flood of sexual energy and ecstasy all over his body.
Once a man has had sex with a woman with a truly tight vagina... all he will be able to think about... is having sex with that same woman again.
But, most women eventually lose their "teenage" tightness. Nature takes its toll on everyone. However, a certain (very small) group of very clever women... over 2,000 years ago... discovered...
How To Reverse Vagina Aging!
And these women became the most powerful on earth. They married the richest and the most powerful men. If their husband was a king, it was the woman who controlled the king. You see, a woman who is old enough to know how to give a man extremely good sex plus has a tight, moist, young-looking vagina, has an enormous advantage over every other woman.
It doesn't matter how beautiful the other woman is. It doesn't matter how sexy her body is. It doesn't matter if she has big or small breasts. It doesn't matter how interesting she is or if she has a high I.Q. The truth is, a woman with a young, tight, "velvet glove" vagina will get the man every time.
What did these special women discover 2,000 years ago? It was a cream; a cream which has been a closely-guarded secret for all those years.
What this cream does is:
· It tightens the vagina and the muscles in the surrounding area!
· It increases a woman's sexual desire!
· It slows the menopausal process!
· It totally eliminates the need for vagina tightening surgery which is the fastest-growing (and one of the most expensive) medical procedures being asked for by women today!
· It restores the natural elasticity of the vagina!
· It dramatically increases the intensity, frequency and quality of a woman's orgasms!
· It maintains natural color and a "teenage" appearance!
· It acts as a lubricant with a fresh, clean scent!
This product is called "LAVET" and it is based on a secret herbal formula that is 100% safe and natural. The main ingredient is Aleppo Oak Gall (AOG) that has been treated with a secret process. It has been used for centuries by the most powerful, the most successful and the most highly-desired women in Asia.
And, now a Ghanaian biotech company owns the rights to this secret formula and is selling it to the women in Africa with...
A full one year money back guarantee
If you are unhappy with this product for any reason, just send back the empty container (any time within the next 12 months) and get a full and immediate refund with no questions asked.
This product works!
But Wait, That's Not All!
If you order the LAVET cream today, you will also get a free Report titled, "Secrets of Vagina Tightening For Optimum Sex and Enjoyment"
This is a manual we have written (you can read it on your computer or your phone) which not only shows you EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW about vagina tightening, but which will also show you...
How To Use LAVET Cream For Best Results!
Women who have bought LAVET say that combining the instruction inside the manual with the LAVET cream has sent their and their man's level of enjoyment...
Through The Roof!
This cream because of its potency and how well it works is sold for upwards $100 (=N=17,000) for one month's supply elsewhere.
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